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When Being Needed Starts Costing Black Women Themselves

When Being Needed Starts Costing Black Women Themselves

by Shirl Hubbard | May 14, 2026 | Blog, Support for Black Women

There’s a certain kind of pressure that settles over a Black woman’s life when everybody starts seeing her as the one who can handle everything. The one people call first.The one who figures things out.The one who keeps showing up no matter how much is already on her...
What Happens When Black Women Are Taught to Stay

What Happens When Black Women Are Taught to Stay

by Shirl Hubbard | May 13, 2026 | Blog, Support for Black Women

I’m always reflecting on how many Black women have been taught to confuse endurance with strength. And because of that, a lot of us end up staying in things long after peace has already left. We stay in relationships, roles, and routines. We stay in environments that...
The Problem With Always Being Seen as Strong

The Problem With Always Being Seen as Strong

by Shirl Hubbard | May 12, 2026 | Blog, Support for Black Women

One of the stories that stayed with me from the 26 Black Women storytelling series came from a woman describing what it felt like to sit in a doctor’s office during cancer treatment and hear the word “delay” again. Another delay.Another complication.Another moment...
When “Strong” Starts Costing Black Women Too Much

When “Strong” Starts Costing Black Women Too Much

by Shirl Hubbard | May 11, 2026 | Blog, Support for Black Women

One of the stories that stayed with me most from the 26 Black Women storytelling series came from a Black woman describing what it felt like to realize her body had been warning her for a long time… and she never really stopped long enough to listen. At the time, she...
Fuck Precedent: Rewriting the Rules Black Women Never Agreed To

Fuck Precedent: Rewriting the Rules Black Women Never Agreed To

by Shirl Hubbard | Feb 17, 2026 | Blog, Support for Black Women

So much of breaking generational precedent for Black women starts with noticing the moments when our choices were shaped long before we could speak. There are moments in my life when I look back and realize I wasn’t making decisions, I was following a script somebody...
Real Support for Black Women Starts with Knowing What You Need

Real Support for Black Women Starts with Knowing What You Need

by Shirl Hubbard | Nov 12, 2025 | Blog, Support for Black Women

For years, Black women have been saying we need more support. I don’t disagree. But the conversation often stops there, as though support is a single thing and receiving more of it will automatically make us feel supported. It will not. A person can love you,...
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